AI couples clarity engine

You're not broken.
You're just unspoken.

Get a personalized clarity report in 10 minutes. See what your partner truly experiences. Find the root of what keeps repeating. Get 3 concrete actions for this week.

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Trusted by 2,000+ couples. Takes 10 minutes.
Her side
"I do everything and he doesn't even notice. I'm exhausted from carrying the emotional weight alone."
The gap
Same relationship, two different realities. Neither wrong. Both hurting. That gap is where clarity lives.
His side
"I try, but nothing I do is ever enough. I've stopped trying because I'll get it wrong anyway."
$3,000+
Average cost of couples therapy
93.6%
Say "I finally feel understood"
10 min
To complete the questionnaire
6 years
Of couples psychology research
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Unspoken AI Coach
We keep having the same fight about chores. I feel like I do everything.
That's the invisible labor trap. You're not fighting about dishes. You're fighting about feeling seen. The real question: when's the last time you felt genuinely appreciated?
Sound familiar?
The patterns that keep couples stuck
These aren't character flaws. They're signal mismatches. And they're fixable once you can see them.
01

The same fight on repeat

Different trigger, same explosion. You fight about dishes but it's really about respect. About being seen. About carrying too much alone. The surface conflict hides the real one.

02

The roommate phase

You coexist. Share logistics. Split tasks. But somewhere along the way, the spark went quiet. Not gone, but buried under routine and unspoken distance.

03

Talking but not connecting

You say the words but they land wrong. Every conversation spirals. You both leave feeling more misunderstood than before. The intent was good, the impact wasn't.

04

Feeling invisible

You pour energy into the relationship and it vanishes into thin air. No acknowledgment. No reciprocation. You start wondering if you even matter to them.

How it works
Three steps to clarity. Ten minutes total.
1

Each partner answers privately

A 10-minute questionnaire designed by relationship psychologists. Scenario-based, not self-assessment. Your partner answers separately.

2

AI cross-analyzes both sides

Our engine maps the gap between what you each experience, feel, and need. It finds the patterns you can't see from inside the relationship.

3

You get your clarity playbook

A personalized report with your dynamic decoded, your triggers mapped, and 3 concrete actions to shift the pattern this week.

The playbook
What you actually get
Not generic advice. A personalized map of your relationship dynamic, built from both perspectives.
Your clarity playbook
Attachment dynamicAnxious / Avoidant
Core cyclePursue-Withdraw
Primary triggerFeeling unseen
Love language gapActs / Words mismatch
This week's actionThe 5-minute bridge
  • Your couple's attachment map: how your styles interact and trigger each other
  • The negative cycle decoded: what you each actually feel underneath the conflict
  • Emotional triggers mapped for both partners, with origins and patterns
  • Love language analysis: where you're showing love in ways they can't receive
  • 3 specific actions for this week, tailored to your exact dynamic
  • A shared vocabulary to talk about what's really going on
Built on science
Not another relationship quiz
Built on the same frameworks used by the world's top couples therapists. Gottman Method, Attachment Theory, EFT, and modern relationship science.
69%
Of relationship problems are perpetual. Gottman proved it. Unspoken helps you manage them.
5:1
The magic ratio. Five positive interactions for every negative one. We show you where yours stands.
86%
Of couples report feeling closer after seeing their dynamic from their partner's perspective.
Why Unspoken
Not therapy. Not a chatbot. Something new.

Traditional coaching

$150-400 per session
  • Human nuance and empathy
  • Personalized to your story
  • Expensive, weeks-long waitlists
  • Scheduling conflicts
  • One perspective at a time
  • No take-home playbook

Unspoken

$47 one-time
  • Both perspectives analyzed together
  • 10 minutes, instant results
  • Built on proven frameworks
  • Concrete weekly actions
  • Private, no judgment
  • Shareable clarity playbook

ChatGPT / AI chatbots

Free or $20/mo
  • Available anytime
  • No cost barrier
  • Generic, no couples methodology
  • Only hears one side
  • No structured framework
  • No actionable output
Pricing
Choose your path to clarity
Less than one therapy session. More insight than months of guessing.

Solo Her

$27
One-time payment
  • Your personal questionnaire
  • Individual clarity report
  • Your attachment style decoded
  • Your emotional triggers mapped
  • 3 actions for this week
Start her questionnaire
Most clarity

Couple Playbook

$47
One-time payment, both partners
  • Both questionnaires included
  • Cross-analysis of both perspectives
  • Your couple's negative cycle decoded
  • Attachment dynamic map
  • Love language gap analysis
  • Shared vocabulary and 3 weekly actions
Get the couple playbook

Solo Him

$27
One-time payment
  • Your personal questionnaire
  • Individual clarity report
  • Your attachment style decoded
  • Your emotional triggers mapped
  • 3 actions for this week
Start his questionnaire
FAQ
Common questions
Is this therapy?
No. Unspoken is a clarity tool, not therapy. We don't diagnose, treat, or replace licensed professionals. Think of it as a GPS for your relationship: it shows you where you are, what's happening, and what to try. If deeper work is needed, we'll tell you that too.
What if my partner won't participate?
That's exactly what the Solo reports are for. You'll still get deep clarity on your own patterns, triggers, and attachment style. And often, when one partner shares their report, the other gets curious enough to do theirs.
How is this different from a personality quiz?
Personality quizzes tell you what type you are. Unspoken shows you what's happening between you. Our questions are scenario-based and behavior-focused, built on the same frameworks used by Gottman-certified therapists. The output isn't a label. It's a playbook.
Is my data private?
Completely. Your answers are encrypted and never shared with your partner (unless you choose to share the report). We don't sell data. We don't show ads. Your relationship details stay between you and the AI.
What if I don't like the report?
We offer a full refund within 24 hours, no questions asked. But honestly, the "I don't like it" feedback we get is usually "this is uncomfortably accurate." Clarity isn't always comfortable. But it's always useful.
How long does it take?
About 10 minutes per person for the questionnaire. Your playbook is generated instantly after both partners complete theirs (or immediately for Solo reports).
Stop guessing. Start understanding.

The clarity you've been looking for is 10 minutes away. No waitlist, no judgment, no $300 per hour.

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